“Not Hidden,

But Home Educated”

 

 

 

 

2009 Survey of Home Educating Families

 

 

 

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Executive Summary and Topline  Results

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Research conducted by Ann Newstead

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

© Ann Newstead 2009

 


Introduction

The Purpose of this Survey

 

In Graham Badman's Report on Home Education the National Association of Social Workers in Education (NASWE) is quoted as saying:

 

 

"EHE removes the opportunity for what is a very efficient method for monitoring and surveillance through attendance at school." (8.8)

 

 

Similar, Her Majesty’s Chief Inspector (HMCI) is quoted:

 

“In addition, children who are educated at home may have less access to trusted adults who they can turn to if they are concerned about their home circumstances.”

These comments – of the sort that home educators frequently come up against – demonstrate a complete lack of understanding as to how education otherwise than at school takes place.  This attitude in turn fuels a media-led perception of home educated children as being cloistered away from any social contact.

 

As a home educating parent myself, I offered this survey as an opportunity for families to counter this widely held belief. 



Methodology

 

The survey began on 11th August 2009 and the last response was collected on 28th September 2009.  The survey was publicised via home education internet lists and also in a direct mailshot to all families in membership of Education Otherwise.

 

At the beginning of the survey it was explained that the purpose of the survey was to look at the facts surrounding the visibility of home educated children by collecting as many real examples as possible of the type and frequency of community and social contact that our children actually have.

Families were asked to complete a basic diary for a week, showing where their child(ren) made contact with other children and adults other than their own parents or guardians. I also asked them to highlight where that contact was regular.

 


Interpretation of the data

 

In addition to the demographic data gathered from just over 500 families, diaries were kept in full by 309 of these.  For the purpose of this summary I have identified the most typical range of contact, and nature of contact, most commonly made by home educating families.

 

Where percentages in the topline do not sum 100 this is due to rounding (up to one decimal place).

 

Publication of the data

 

This summary relates to all of the responses is available online at: http://tinyurl.com/nothiddenhomeeducated

 

 

Copies of the completed diaries are available on request (see below).

Contact Details

 

Ann Newstead

anewstead@educationotherwise.org

08445 868839

 

 

 


 

Demographics

Location

 

41.8% of respondents considered their location to be in a town with a further 27.4% living within a village.

Length of Time Home Educating

47% of families had been home educating up to three years, and 26.4% for between four and six years.

Age and Educational Setting

96.3% of primary aged children (4-10 years old) in the families taking part in the survey were being educated at home, and 91.4% of the secondary aged children (11-15 years old).  Between the ages of 16-19, children were almost as likely (45.6%) to be in some form of formal provision (school or college) as they were to still be home educated (57.4%).

Community Based Groups

396 families were involved in some respect with at least one local home education support group.  As well as 169 families being involved with Scouts, Beavers, or Woodland Folk groups, 335 families were involved in some other community based group.  This shows a high level of engagement in regular community activities.

Diaries

309 families gave details of who came into contact with their child(ren) on Monday to Wednesday on the week that they recorded their movements, and 300 gave diary entries for Thursday to Sunday.

Across the week, the people most frequently encountered by the majority of home educating families included:

1.       Allotment holders

2.       Baby sitters

3.       Band members at band practice

4.       Bank counter staff

5.       Bus drivers on regular routes

6.       Cafe owners and staff

7.       Charity shop volunteers

8.       Chemists

9.       Childminders

10.   Chip shop staff

11.   Churchgoers

12.   Church group members

13.   Corner Shop staff

14.   Cricket Club members

15.   Dance teachers

16.   Doctors

17.   Doctor's receptionists

18.   Dog walkers

19.   Dyslexia tutors

20.   Extended family including grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins

21.   Family friends

22.   Football coaches

23.   Guitar teachers

24.   Health visitors

25.   Home educating friends

26.   Leisure centre staff

27.   Librarians

28.   Midwives

29.   Milkmen

30.   Neighbours

31.   Parents' workplace colleagues

32.   Pet shop staff

33.   Post office counter staff

34.   Postmen and women

35.   Soft Play Centre staff

36.   Sports coach

37.   Staff at local zoo/museum/gallery/National Trust property

38.   Supermarket checkout staff

39.   SureStart parents and staff

40.   Swimming pool staff

41.   Youth Club members

42.   Youth organisation members (eg Beavers, Boys Brigade, Brownies, Guides, Girls Brigade, Rainbows, Scouts, Woodcraft Folk)

 

Some families also encountered:

 

1.       Choir members

2.       Climbing centre staff

3.       Gun club members

4.       Ice hockey coaches

5.       Ice rink staff

6.       Martial arts club members and coaches

7.       Orchestra members

8.       Trampoline class members  and coaches

9.       Yoga class members and teachers

 

It was also noted that some home educated young people were engaged in volunteer work out in the community for example at the local city farm or museum.

 

Many of the interactions were regular, and many involved meeting a number of adults at one time, such as home education groups and community clubs.

 

Several weekly diaries are given here as an example of the kind of records that were submitted. 

 

 

 

Family based in a city, home educating 4-6 years, home educated child in 4-10 year old category. Member of local HE group, HE tutor group and other community group

 

Monday

·  Post office staff (see 2-3 times a week)

·  Rollerblading teacher + 6 HE parents + 10 HE kids

·  Yoga teacher + 6 kids non HE

Tuesday

·  Museum staff

·  15 HE families at museum visit

·  20+ HE families at park + many other families in park

·  Supermarket check-out staff (2-3 times a week)

Wednesday

·  HE parent/ tutor at HE group (every week)

·  15 HE kids at local history group (every week)

·  2 instructors at local sports centre (every week)

·  Other parent + parent's friend (regular)

Thursday

·  Judo teacher (regular)

·  4-6 HE parents at judo (regular)

·  6-10 HE kids at judo (regular)

·  20-30 families local HE group (regular)

Friday

·  Football coach (regular)

·  10-18 HE kids at football

·  8-10 HE parents at football

·  Music teacher (regular)

·  Friends (regular)

·  Other parent & friends

Saturday

·  Schooled friends + parents (regular)

·  Cinema staff cafe staff

·  Family: aunt/grandparents/cousins(regular)

·  Library staff (regular)

·  Neighbours (borrow dog to take for a walk regularly)

Sunday

·  Neighbours allotment holders (regular)

·  Schooled friends + parents family (as above)

·  Neighbours other parent + friends

·  Museum staff

·  Families in local park and playground

 

 

Family based in a village, home educating 1-3 years, home educated child in 4-10 year old category, 11-15 year old in state or other formal provision. Member of local HE group

Monday

·  Maths tutor whom we see every week

Tuesday

·  Parents and children at home ed group we have attended weekly since February

Wednesday

·  Older sister’s boyfriend seen several times a week for the past year

·  Staff at the local swimming pool

Thursday

·  Piano teacher whom she sees every week term time has done for the last two years. Shop staff

Friday

·  Dance teacher whom she has seen every Friday for five years

·  Staff at the local pool

Saturday

·  Sister’s boyfriend- as before

Sunday

·  Grandparents who we see on a weekly basis

·  Grandparents’ neighbours

 

Family based in a town, home educating 7-9 years, home educated child in 11-15 year old category. Member other community group

Monday
·  Staff at local swimming pool (whom we see almost every day)
·  numerous pool users (do not know if we have seen them before or not!!)
·  made friends with two children, one same age one 1yr older (never seen them before!!)
·  Neighbour's 2 sons (whom we see almost every day)
·  their 2 cousins who live at other end of cud-de-sac (whom we see often)
·  Numerous neighbourhood residents (whom we often/sometimes see)
·  Other dog-walkers in the park (some we regularly/sometimes see, and others who we've never seen before).
Tuesday
·  Staff at local swimming pool (whom we see almost every day)
·   numerous pool users (do not know if we have seen them before or not)
·  Shop staff in several shops (whom we sometimes see, and some who we see regularly)
·  Neighbour's children (whom we see almost every day)
·  Numerous neighbourhood residents (whom we often/sometimes see)
·  Friend and friend's parents and siblings (whom we often see)
·  Other dog-walkers (some we regularly/sometimes see)
Wednesday
·  Friend, and friend's mother and sister (who we travel to see/meet at least once a week)
·   Neighbour & neighbour's children (whom we see almost every day)
·  their cousins (whom we often see)
·   Other dog-walkers whom we sometimes/regularly see)
·   Newsagent staff (whom we sometimes see).
Thursday
·  Local swimming pool staff (whom we see almost every day)
·   numerous pool user (don't know if we have seen them before)
·  Swimming with friend and friend's mother (whom we travel to see at least once a week)
·  Staff in several shops (where we shop regularly/often, and we are well-known)
·  Other dog-walkers (whom we sometimes/often see)
·  Friend and friend's parents and siblings (whom we often see)
·  Neighbour's children (whom we see almost every day)
·   Numerous neighbourhood residents (whom we often/sometimes see)
Friday

·  Local swimming pool staff (whom we see almost every day)

·  numerous other pool users (don't know whether or not we have seen them before)

·  Restaurant staff (whom we often/sometimes see when we dine out every Friday)

·  Aunts, uncles, cousins (some whom we see at least once a week, some whom we see more often)

·  Other dog-walkers (whom we sometimes/often see)

·  Neighbour's children (whom we see almost every day)

·  Numerous neighbourhood residents (whom we often/ sometimes see).

 

 Saturday

·  Shop staff (we regularly/often see)

·  Other dog-walkers (whom we regularly/sometimes see)

·  Numerous neighbourhood residents (whom we sometimes/often see).

Sunday

·  Local Ju-jitsu club staff and members (whom we see once a week)

·  Other dog-walkers (whom we often/sometimes see)

·  Aunts, uncles, cousins (whom we see often)

·  Swimming club teachers, staff and members (whom we USUALLY see at least twice a week....Monday and Sunday)

·  Neighbour & neighbour's children (whom we see almost every day)

·  Numerous neighbourhood residents (whom we often/sometimes see)

 

A full set of the diaries is available from the survey’s author.


 

Comments

223 families took advantage of the offer to comment on the subject of the visibility, and social interaction of their children.

It was noted by some that research such as this was not something that had been attempted by the Review team – to the detriment of the understanding of all involved:

As home education is such a minority choice, it is only to be expected that many people will have little knowledge of how families conduct this. It is obviously vital that anyone looking to change the current legal situation with regard to home education, has taken the time and trouble to understand what goes on. I do not feel this is the case with the review conducted by Graham Badman.

Contrary to the assumption on the part of the general population that home educated children “miss out” on social interaction, many parents contrasted the opportunities available to their child with those of a “typical” schooled child:

Most people are curious about Home Education and make a point of talking to our four children. I think it is more likely that a child within a 'standard' family of two children who are educated at the local state school is more likely to be 'invisible', especially in the large Senior schools where the staff often fail to know the children and don't have sufficient knowledge of a child to detect any issues the child may have. In my experience many parents feel that a child at Senior School does not have time to do extra curricular activities and receives all the socialisation they require from school; this obviously limits the contacts the child has with others on a normal daily basis.
However, with such families, as with those who home educate there should be varying levels of contact with others reflecting that different adults have different levels of contact with others.


In my experience home educators put a lot of time and effort into ensuring that their children have a wide and varied social life whilst maintaining their safety - how many children in school are safe from bullies?

One parent astutely commented:

When I looked at who my children see on a regular basis, a lot of the adults professional status should mean they are CRB checked and trained in child protection issues, if there were any concerns about my children I am sure those with the relevant training would know how to deal with such a situation correctly. It is clear from being able to take this survey that my children interact a great deal with the community and are far from hidden!

For families where the child may have special educational needs, or simply not be particularly outgoing, the choice on how and when to interact outside the family is, once again, something that home educating parents are aware of – and thankful for:

My son particularly enjoys spending time with his brother and vice versa. He says again and again how being with me and his brother are what makes home "homely". He loves the relaxation and the chatting and enjoyment of our company. The tyranny of 'out' being better in some way is just nonsense.

It is taking me ages to calm down and stop endlessly pressurising my son to go out to 'do things' as if it is in some way better than being with people he loves at home.

I just need to believe in him and know that when the time comes he will be out and about to an extent which is right for him, not necessarily to the extent society likes to proclaim is right.

Another wrote:

Some of our weeks can be full-on but others not that much contact. My daughter is autistic. This means that her coping abilities vary enormously and small groups or one-to-one are best for her. She is not HIDDEN away and is known and loved by many people. Judgements of how 'happy' or 'well adjusted' a child is by how many people they are seen by or who they talk to is a false one. My daughter is happy by herself, just with me and her father or with close friends - when she decides she wants to do it! Many autistic children will not choose to be with others either at all or very little - they are still safe and will function much better if they are left to figure out the world at their own pace rather than be forced to do something society sees as 'normal'.

The nature of relationships and contacts that home educated children make was also commented upon:

It is not only the number of social contacts which is remarkable, but the depth of them. I am convinced that if my older daughter had been at school, she would not have had the time to develop close regular relationships with the following people:

* Two elderly neighbours who were like grandmothers to her for many years until their deaths
* A large extended family of Kurdish refugees next door, where she was welcomed on a daily basis over a period of two years
* Friends, their siblings and parents: over the years, I can think of three families where my daughter was regularly with them on average for a full day each week. Similarly, I know some of my daughter's home educated friends very closely because I see so much of them.
* My daughter's own relatives. Home education has made it possible for my daughter to make extended visits to grandparents in this country and abroad. She was able to be with two of her grandparents during their terminal illnesses and at their deathbeds. She often goes alone to visit two sets of aunts and uncles who live in our road. Because she has time, she is closer to them than their other (schooled) nieces and nephews.

Even families in rural areas felt that the socialisation and socialising of their children was sufficient:

We live in a very isolated area and yet we still have a busy social life with regular contact with friends and other adults and children. The social contact that the children have is more natural than the school society because they meet a wider range of ages. Consequently they are at ease talking to adults, which I find sometimes children who go to school are not.

 

One parent highlighted the double standard that can persist even when people are presented with the evidence of the range of socialisation that home educated children enjoy:

I often have local (state-school) parents comment on how friendly and out-going the children are. Then when they find out the children are home educated, they suddenly wonder "but are they okay socially??" This has always puzzled me. When the other parent thought the children went to state-school, they thought the children were very "normal" and out-going... but when they realised they were home educated, they thought perhaps the children would never integrate in society! Folly!

Another summed up the frustration that many home educating families feel at this misconception that seems to persist:

I feel that 'home' educated just doesn't do us justice we spend very little time at home!

We recognise 50% of the people on our street by sight and of these half of them we know on a first name basis and we have a little knowledge of their personal life as they know of ours, we go out of our house every day and always see at least 1 of these people as we set off on our travels and we always make a point of stopping and chatting to see how they are etc.

 We have a wonderful caring, diverse community in our area and this needs to be promoted across the country not dividing people into convenient stereotypes and encouraging neighbours to be suspicious of each other. We have to recognise that every person is an individual with their own specific needs and if we celebrate that diversity we can respect each other’s right to be different and do things their way.

I'm very disappointed that a social services issue has become interlinked with an educational one and I feel strongly that the procedures that are in place are sufficient to protect children if the public do raise concerns where necessary to the relevant authority and that is followed up professionally by the relevant authority.

My children are not hidden from view and I am confident that I provide a suitable education for them according to the law, we have a varied and busy social life and many adults and children see them over the course of any given week

 

Annex A

Questions

 

1. What type of location do you live in? Select the answer that you feel is closest to representing where you live.

·         rural

·         village

·         town

·         city

 

2. Roughly how long have you been home educating?

·         1-3 years

·         4-6 years

·         7-9 years

·         10+

 

3. Which age range(s) do you have children in, and are they educated at home or in playschool/school or other formal provision?

·         0-3          - home educated or state/other formal provision

·         4-10       - home educated or state/other formal provision

·         11-15     - home educated or state/other formal provision

·         16-19     - home educated or state/other formal provision

 

4. Are you or your children part of any of the following:

·         Local Home Education Group

·         Home Ed Tutor Group

·         Scouts, Beavers, Woodland Folk etc

·         Other Community Based Group

 

Weekly diaries - Monday to Sunday

Please describe the contact that your child(ren) had with others beyond those that they live with during the course of today.